My Opinion of Remarriage

Nowadays, the rate of people’s divorce is increasing at a surprising speed and without thinking of their children’s, there are more and more couples getting divorced recklessly. As a consequence, the children may experience the worst time, and worse still, it may make a bad impact on their later growth. As for the parents, it also does great harm that it destroys their trust in marriage. To improve the situation, they make a remedy that they remarry and combine another family, which is worth our thinking whether it is an effective way to get out of the pain they are experiencing, next I want to show my opinion.

I’m in favor of it, because there is no doubt that everyone needs a complete and happy family to grow up. If the child live in a single parent family, he may be laughed at by other children which result in their inferiority feeling. What’s worse without either of fatherhood or motherhood, he may lose the corresponding character in his growing and he must envy those who have a complete family. After parent’s remarriage, the children would be cared by more people, so they could live happily. In addition, since the parent experiences the divorce, he will attach more importance to the family and value the marriage. But as the coin has two side, another factor should not be ignored, some children hate that their parent takes a stranger to get into their family they may be unfriendly even aggressive to the new comer, thus they lead a bad

relationship and put the parent into an awkward situation. In this case they can’t live happily as the divorced parent expected or even worse than the life before.

To conclude, parents should not be so selfish, instead, they should care more about what their children think no matter they want to get divorced or get remarried. Only by communicating more with the children can the children know the parents’ great love for them and they will support whatever decisions they make.