being completely honest with your friends is impossible.

First, not being honest sometimes helps improve efficiency when people deal with difficulties in a group with friends.

What always happens when people work on a project is that they may be distracted by several issues which are irrelevant to the work, which results in the fact that people are not able to finish the assignment on time.

人们在工作的时候，通常都会被一些不相关的事情分散注意力，导致他们不能按时完成任务。

For instance, my friend used to have a job which is to organize a concert in group. However, in the process of preparation, a bad news came to the group that his sister got sick, which needs his assistance.

比如，我的一个朋友曾经帮忙组织一场音乐会。然而，在准备的过程中，一个坏消息传来，说他的妹妹生病了，需要他的帮助。

In order to solve the problem which came so accidentally and finish the job perfectly at the same time, the members in the group sent two other guys to help his sister’s issue rather than told him the situation.

为了解决这个来的如此突然的问题并且顺利完成任务，团队的其他成员决定让其他几个人前去帮助他的妹妹而选择不告诉他事实。

Finally, the concert was in a great style and perfectly ended. My friend’s sister recovered soon under the concern of the members in the group.

最后，演唱会十分成功。而他的妹妹也在其他人的照顾下很快康复。

Thus, the dishonesty of the members in my friend’s group helped in difficult issues with both the perfect outcome and the highest efficiency. 所以，其他成员对我的朋友的不诚实在困难的情况下很有用，能够同时取得完美的结果和最高的效率。

Consequently, dishonesty among friends sometimes helps improve efficiency when they work together.

所以，朋友间的不诚实有时会在团队工作中帮助提升效率。

Second, the dishonesty of people to their friends sometimes helps them grasp valuable opportunities. For example, I used to have a great opportunity to be an exchange student, which allowed me enjoy a ten-day school life in America. As my friend Tom was in charge of the project, he told me that both my parents had to agree to my decision immediately. However, my father went to Korea to solve some problems and we could not get touch with him. It caused him unable to show any attitudes to my decision. As my mom was in favor of the trip, I just told Tom that both

my parents are appreciated to what I had decided. Finally, I managed the trip and had a great time there. In addition, my dad was also glad about what I had done. Thus, it is just my dishonesty to my friend Tom that helped me gain this valuable opportunity. Therefore, the dishonesty of people to their friends sometimes helps them grasp valuable opportunities.

As aforementioned, I hold the opinion that being completely honest with friends all the time is impossible, which is supported by the following two reasons: first, not being honest help improve the efficiency when friends work in a group together. Second, dishonest to friends sometimes help people grasp valuable opportunities. it is just like a writer in China used to say: being dishonest sometimes is the best choice for keeping friendship.